Looking for my Sub:
I am going to do this a little different this time. I am going to explain what I am looking for in a relationship. If you feel like you agree with my views or are looking for something similar then don’t hesitate to send me a message.
Everything I write here is an interpretation of what I see to be a perfect relationship. It may not fit your lifestyle and it might not be right for you.
A relationship should be 50% physical and 50% emotion. By that I mean there has to be physical attraction and an emotional connection. I have made lists of what I am looking for in each group at the end of this post. As well as the qualities I am looking for in a sub.
In order for a relationship to not get boring, both people in the relationship need to try to surprise and do special things for one another. Whether that’s setting up a special date, making them something, going on an adventure or another fun idea. If you keep this up then no relationship will ever seem boring to you. However more times than not I would be the only one trying, which is one sided, tiring and not sustainable. This needs to be a two way street in order for this to work.
Communication is huge in any relationship. If you think you holding in something that bothers you will make your partner happy, then you’re quite mistaken. The second you hold something in, no matter how small, is the second that you start the timer of the bomb that’s going to explode in a few days, weeks, months or even years. Trust me when I say this, no matter what negative reaction you think will happen if you are just honest and clear with someone, is nothing compared to the shit show that will happen if you ignore it. If something is bothering you, then just say it. It’s better for both people.
Finding the perfect someone is one of the hardest things you can do in your lifetime. You’re allowed to take your time and find the perfect one.
For an emotional connection I am looking for a sub with some/all of these qualities:
* Nerdy
* Likes to try new things
* Likes to travel
* Likes to trash talk and joke around
* Likes building blanket forts
* Likes throwing water balloons
* Is honest
* Is loyal
* Likes to travel
* Is Bi
* Is a hard worker
* Is a good human being
* Doesn’t drink or do drugs
My perfect sub would have some of these attributes however it’s not necessary to have all.
Here are some things that I find attractive:
* Woman who are not overweight or underweight.
* Woman who are in shape.
* Big ass
* Tattoos
* Piercings
* Flat stomach or Abs
* Blonde or Red hair
My perfect sub would have some of these attributes however it’s not necessary to have all.
What I am looking for in a sub:
* Is a masochist
* Likes being teased
* Wants to give up full control
* Enjoys role playing
* Is fine with sharing. (Is either sadistic to other woman or submissive)
* Is a slave/babygirl
* Likes toys
* Wakes me up with a morning deepthroat
* Wants to improve
My perfect sub would have some of these attributes however it’s not necessary to have all.
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